Wednesday, December 15, 2010

people article

so i know it's People so it can hardly be qualified as an "article" but i mostly admire this guy as an actor and found this little tidbit fascinating

Ryan Gosling's Mom Still Believes in Santa Claus

Wednesday December 15, 2010 07:00 AM EST

Ryan Gosling's Mom Still Believes in Santa Claus

Ryan Gosling

Don't tell Ryan Gosling's mother that Santa Claus doesn't exist. She has faith.

"My mother still believes in Santa Claus. We tried to break it to her once, but she wasn't having it," the actor, 30, tells GQin its January issue, on newsstands Dec. 21.

Donna Gosling, whoaccompanied Ryan to the Oscarswhen he was first nominated in 2007, has a rare gift, says her son. "There are very few believers in the world, but my mother is one of them. I don't know if she'd admit that this is why she does it, but it's just more fun to believe in Santa than not to."

If the Blue Valentine actor, who'sbeen linked to actress Blake Lively of late, sees the value of nurturing the fantasy, he's also about keeping it real – which explains why he got a job at a deli after starring in the Hollywood hit The Notebook.

"I'd never had a real job," he says – which is a problem, he adds, for many in Hollywood. "They have meals. They go to Pilates. But it's not enough. So they do drugs. If everybody had a pile of rocks in their backyard and spent every day moving them from one side of the yard to the other, it would be a much happier place."

And he tries to remain grounded amid a life he never expected.

"Look, this is crazy," he says. "I don't understand how I'm here, living this life, wearing this suit. I assume I'm going to pay for it someday … And that's okay. It seems fair to me. I just want to be ready for it. I want to meet it like a gentleman."

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

christmas cards

although christmas cards have yet to be in the spanburg family budget
(we finally decided to wait until we have miniature human spanburgs)
i loooove getting christmas cards.

we only really get a few cards each year
(since we never send them)
but when they come in the mail,
they're immediately assaulted by tape
and posted on a wall somewhere.

this year i received my first two christmas cards on the same day
and who they came from just about made my day.
i love all these people...
and to the two who read my little blog...
since you won't get a card in the mail from me,

merry
christmas!


wow.

Monday, December 13, 2010

this weekend's weather

saturday night, we escaped indiana.
this was not the plan.
shoulda been sunday night... but the weather was really starting to look bad for northwest indiana.... you know, right on the path to home.

now while this wasn't our route,
let me just say
i am thankful for my husband who is a great driver in bad weather
and that he made a good decision in leaving when we did


black swan.


on Saturday, Lacey, Lacey's friend Stephanie, and I ventured out to the Keystone theatre to see Black Swan. here is my mini review (really, my thoughts).

i will say, first of all, that the movie was beautiful in terms of costume and dancing. i absolutely love ballet. the only ballet i was fortunate enough to see was Dracula at the Murat in Indianapolis. it was incredible... i think if i had my choice, i'd rather see a ballet than a broadway show. i'm also a sucker for cheesy dance movies. (all except for Dirty Dancing... i think i might be the only girl who didn't like that one...) Center Stage is one of my favorite movies of all time. :) i was so impressed by how natalie portman transformed herself into the role of a ballerina. she nailed the role, like she usually does. the acting was superb and the way her psychotic breakdown manifested itself was brilliant... the movie was very dark, very twisted. believe it or not, i typically appreciate movies of that nature.

that's where i stop with the positive. (let me preface by saying i am sad to deliver any sort of negativity. i truly love the arts, and have little appreciation for how our culture has destroyed a lot of its value for me.) i understood before i went to see the movie that there was going to be a pretty graphic scene. what i didn't understand is how explicit that scene (and one other) would truly be. first of all, that is my fault. i have endless resources that could have helped me know beforehand exactly what i was getting myself into. second, i understand why the scenes were placed in the movie like they were. i definitely don't condone it but i get the point that was being made.

i generally try to stay away from movies that are extremely crude, demented in their horror, or contain nudity. i recognize that our society has become desensitized to sin... and i do not want my heart to be desensitized to such things. i walked away from the movie knowing that the scenes i had just witnessed were not scenes that were good for my heart. while it is not an issue of temptation for me, it is an issue of purity. i find that more and more each day, i desire a pure heart. i'm sinful by nature so by nature, my heart is generally filthy. i want to be really cautious about what i allow to penetrate my soul. there is lots of scripture on this and i will be the last to judge. i know conviction is personal and takes time. (thank goodness God is so patient with me). if you do decide to see this movie and you are a Christ follower like myself, I would recommend that you rent it and be prepared to fast forward through two different scenes. below is a scripture worth memorizing (tiffany- do you remember the knowdaverbs song??) and two great resources for movie reviews from a christian perspective.

1 Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. 2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.
Romans 12:1-2

(tim has been published in a Hollywood Jesus book... kinda cool)

(these reviews are the most detailed i've found)

Thursday, December 9, 2010

happy... and ready... for this weekend.

firstly, i am praying tim and i will be able to make it home tomorrow. the impending snow suggests there may be problems.... but the weather guy on tv right now (who sounds exactly like an affleck brother, i might add) is leading us to believe that safe travel is possible. i don't want to pack everything up and end up not going. i also don't want to miss the opportunity to see mi familia! miss them all so.

secondly, it's not fair that it's 76 degrees in phoenix. lucky steve nash.

thirdly, wind chills next week in the negative 20/30's????

what the.

fourthly, i look forward to a movie date with my sister. we are going to see Black Swan. just in case you missed the preview i previously posted , go here. i'm worried a bit about the inappropriate-ness of the movie. it appears that the same sort of scene that caused Blue Valentine to receive an NC-17 rating is the kind that will be in Black Swan. i hear the MPAA reduced that rating to an R and all... but i'll close my eyes, i promise.

fifthly, i have a three day weekend. how awesome is that?!

sixthly, i am thankful for phone dates with friends. i had two really good phone dates this week and they really lifted my spirit.

sixthly, look at what i found


Monday, December 6, 2010

cute little nash update

poor nash is not fond of this snow.

and dad left the shovel at his dad's house

so unless nash is on a sidewalk, he is in the frigid snow

and when nash gets let out to go potty,

he walks just a few feet, piddles, then tries to keep going

until one of his little hind legs can't take the snow anymore

and he hikes it up and limps on three little useless legs

mom then picks him up and carries him back into the house,

while rubbing his maimed snow paw.

when he gets back inside the house,

he doesn't even wait to get his harness taken off
(he hates his harness)

he just makes a break for it and runs into the bedroom,

finds a way to get under as many covers as possible

and goes back to bed.

let me just share with you a succession of the blankets he buries himself beneath on a regular basis:





he's just about the most lovable dog ever.